Who’s in charge of your relationship? Is it ok for your mother to make rules or dictate your relationship with your partner? Watching The real Housewives of Atl… Kandi Burruss mother turned me off to the fullest… why can’t she let Kandi make her own decisions within her relationship…sometimes as a parent you have to let your child make their own decisions….if someone is in love let them be…. moms & dads put a lot of pressure on their adult daughter/sons relationship…. because of something about the person that they don’t approve of…. if your child isn’t being used or abused… let them determine their relationship themselves… why is it so hard to tell your parents…this is my boyfriend/girlfriend this is not your relationship please don’t judge or disrespect my relationship unless you’re asked otherwise…..